[好感人的一封信] - 男人!该知足了吧!别等到失去后,才懂得珍惜!

June 6th, 2006 by florencefung

老公:

对不起,我终于狠下心来和你说离婚了。一直以来我都是个懦弱的女人。我用尽心力的守着我门的婚姻,为你烧你爱吃的菜,为了买你喜欢的CD,为你把一切都弄得很好,给了你我所能给的幸福。而我从未和你提过任何要求,我怕你觉得我烦。可现在我想通了,相恋在久的感情都敌不过几小时的一见钟情。

第一次看到你和她的照片是在音乐网站上,第一次见到她是在你和他离开的酒店门口,第一次听你提起她是在我们结婚3周年纪念晚会上……那真是一个美丽的女孩。我偷看了你给她写的邮件,里面的每一句话真的好甜蜜,好感人。我看着看着就哭了,我骗自己,这是你写给我的,你永远是爱我的,你怎么可能和别人爱得那么深呢?是啊!你没有提离婚,我怎么敢说,我怕说了就真的,永远永远都没有你了。

老公,我真的很爱你,很爱着个家。所以你不说,我也什么都不问。只是在你睡了以后漫漫的哭。你知道吗?我想谢谢你,谢谢你陪了我那么多年,我知道你很爱她,就向我爱着你那样。你没说过离婚,我已经很庆幸了,至少你还是回回家陪我,会吃着我做的饭菜,傻傻的笑。至少你还记得回家给我一个拥抱,记得我的生日!我觉得够了,真的。我爱着你,包容着她。我以为我们可以就这样相安无事的永远相处下去。直到你昨晚和我讲了一个故事。

你说:我有一个朋友,他已经结婚6年了。他有个很好的太太,一直以来他都爱着他的太太,可4 年前他遇到了一个美丽的女孩。女孩对他很好,给了他太太所没有的★★。于是他们恋爱了,偷偷摸摸却又热烈的爱着。女孩很懂事,和他在一起那么久从来没有提过结婚之类的事。他依旧爱着太太,只是那已经是属于2个女人的爱了。他不会抛弃他的太太,因为太太对他太好了,好得找不到分手的理由,找不到伤害她的借口。可现在女孩怀孕了。女孩和他提出了结婚。女孩跟了他4年,把女人最美好的东西都给了他,他没办法拒绝女孩,可又无法抛弃爱他的妻子。故事到这就结束了,你问我:你说他该怎么办?我没有说话。我知道这是你和他之间的故事。这是你最无奈的选择。

昨晚你睡觉之后,我在旁边看着你,看着你好看的脸。看着你熟睡的样子,你睡得真甜。我吻了你,在你身上小心的留下几百个吻,我知道这是最后一次了。宝宝,我的泪一滴一滴的落在你胸口,漫漫化开。一滴一滴的落在了我碎掉的心上。

宝宝。我走了。我知道我的离开才是最好的结局。我不在你身边,自己要好好照顾自己。我把家里收拾干净了。饭在电饭堡里,回来以后记得自己热热吃了,这是最后一次给你做饭了。记得不要因为工作常长饿着,对身体不好,还有你有胃病,别和朋友出去喝酒,少吸点烟。我帮你定了1年的牛奶,他们会直接送到家里的,记得要热过才可以喝。你想买的CD我也买了,就放在电脑桌上。还有什么?对了,这个家里的东西我什么都没带走,除了你第一次送给我的礼物,那只绒线小熊,我已经习惯抱着它睡觉了。以后它可以陪着我,抱着它我会感觉到你的。

我走了,离开的时候心里很痛,我们住了6年的房子,我和它说再见,我守了6年的家,我和它说再见。我爱了那么多年的你,我和你说:祝福!老公,我走了以后你要好好爱她,知道吗?不要在爱情里伤害任何人了。一定要对她很好很好,就象我对你那样。帮我吻你们的孩子,我想他一定会很漂亮的。告诉他,我会祝福他的。我依旧爱着你,只是从今天开始一切与你无关!

是否我沉默了,你才能听到我的心声

是否我停止了,你才能看到我的眼泪

是否我心碎了,你才会摸到我的心痛

是否我消失了,你才会知道我的存在

{ 爱和喜欢的分别 }

June 6th, 2006 by florencefung

爱是他在的时候,眼睛里只有他一人;他不在的时候,一切都带有他的影子。

喜欢是在深夜看书时突然想起他,想象他现在做什么,心里漾起一阵轻飘飘的温暖,却从不主动给他打电话。几分钟后,注意力又重新被书中的情节吸引!
爱是在寂寞的夜里,思念如潮水般涌来,手里捧着书却怎么也看不进去,心里惦记着他此时是否还在加班,吃没吃晚饭,是不是如自己想着他一般想着自己。

喜欢是和他讨论问题争的面红耳赤,各不相让,在他面前像个刺猬一样从不认输,但在心里却早已暗暗佩服他的见地他的才华。
爱是希望他和自己步调一致,和自己心灵相通,他无心说的一句玩笑话也能让自己顷刻情绪低落甚至眼泪汪汪。在他面前,自己是从不设防的。

喜欢是出门在外给他发个短信,告诉他这边的天气很好,然后把手机关掉,独自在异地疯玩一个星期,晒成一个黑人后突然出现在他面前吓他一跳。
爱是无论到哪都希望有他陪伴。可以站在海边给他打手机,让他听听海浪的声音;也可以因为在异乡的街道上看到一个酷似他的背影而愣在原地久久不动。

喜欢是他出差前简单的道一声“一路平安”,看着他离去的背影,心中有一点不舍,却什么也不说,只是默默等待他归来的消息。
爱是他临出差前千叮咛万嘱咐,往他的背包里塞满衣服和食物,在车站要等到火车开走才肯离开。并且在他走后的日子里天天心神不定,一遍遍的祈祷他能够平安归来。

喜欢是在受伤的时候,不想让他看到自己脆弱的一面,在他面前把眼泪悄悄抹掉,转过头依然是一副快乐坚强的模样。
爱是在受委屈的时候,爬在他的胸前痛哭,没有伪装没有顾虑,把所有的烦恼统统告诉他,并渴望从他的怀抱中得到安慰。

喜欢是和他周末逛街逛累了一起吃肯德基;是在寒冷的冬天和他抢一杯热咖啡;是和他并肩走在街上中间始终隔着半米的距离;是陪他一起在电脑前打游戏两个人笑的像个孩子。
爱是周末利用半天时间亲手做出几道好菜满足的看他吃下去;是在寒冷的冬天不断为他的咖啡杯里续上热水;是和他走在街上任由他紧紧挽着自己的手,在他旁边安静着做着,幸福地看着他在电脑前工作时专心的样子。

喜欢是听他讲自己童年的趣事,然后哈哈大笑,心中涌起一阵莫名的感动。
爱是听他将自己童年的趣事,然后微微一笑,心中更加怜惜眼前这个曾经如此调皮捣蛋的男人喜欢是在楼道里碰上他,愉快的和他打声招呼,再简单寒暄几句,擦肩而过的时候看见了窗外明媚的阳光,心情无端好了起来。

喜欢是在楼道了看见他,脸上装出一副毫不在乎的表情,但在擦肩而过时细心感受身边颤动的空气,于是忍不住回头望一眼喜欢是看到他和另一个女孩牵手走过,心里有一点点疼,但很快会冲着朝阳重新扬起笑脸。
爱是输不起的游戏,付出全部之后,留下的可能仅仅是刻在心底的一道伤痕喜欢一个人是想要他是自己的,所以,可以喜欢很多人,想要很多人都是自己的。

爱是明明离不开他,却要不得不放弃他,因为他要的幸福,也许我给不了。不敢霸占他,希望看他找到幸福,即使那份幸福不是跟我分享的。

喜欢是,希望寂寞的时候,无聊的时候,伤感的时候,找个人说说话。
爱是,在任何时候都想跟他分享,快乐的时候甚至希望把错有快乐都给了他。

喜欢是,在很久很久没联络的时候,接到他的电话,然后笑着听他说话。
爱是,在几天没有联络的时候,着急得的打电话给他,然后忍住眼泪笑一笑。

喜欢,只有在一起的时候,才惦记着对方。
爱,是哪怕是在一起,每一秒钟也都在思念思念他。

喜欢一个人,多数许多朋友,也会觉得快乐。
爱一个人,是多一个人,都会难受的两个人的世界。

喜欢一个人,是甜腻的。

爱一个人,是苦尽甘来的。

喜欢一个人,在一起的时候会很开心。
爱一个人,在一起的时候,会莫名的失落。

喜欢一个人,你不会想到你们的将来。
爱一个人,你们常常在一起憧憬明天。

喜欢一个人,在一起的时候永远是欢乐。
爱一个人,你会常常流泪。

喜欢一个人,当你们好久不见,你会突然想起他。
爱一个人,当你们好久不见,你会天天想着他。

喜欢一个人,当你想起他,你会微微一笑。
爱一个人,当你想起他,你会对着天空发呆。

喜欢一个人,你会想他有了孩子,你一定会很喜欢。
爱一个人,会有一天,你突然很好奇:将来我们的孩子
会是什么样子。

喜欢一个人就是希望大家都开心。
爱一个人希望他会更开心。

喜欢一个人,你要得只是今天。
爱一个人,你期望的是永远。

喜欢一个人,是看到了他的优点。
爱一个人,是包容了他的缺点。

当你站在你爱的人面前,你的心跳会加速。
但当你站在你喜欢的人面前,你只感到开心。

当你与你爱的人四目交投,你会害羞。
但当你与你喜欢的人四目交投,你只会微笑。

当你与你爱的人对话,你觉得难以启齿。
但当你和你喜欢的人对话,你可以畅所欲言。

当你爱的人哭,你会陪她一起哭。
但当你喜欢的人哭,你会技巧的安慰她。

当你不想再爱一个人,你要闭上眼睛并忍着泪水。
当你不想再喜欢一个人,你只要掩住双耳!

喜欢,是一种心情。
爱,是一种感情。

喜欢,是一种直觉。
爱,是一种感觉。

喜欢,可以停止。
爱,没有休止。

喜欢一个人,特别自然。
爱一个人,特别坦然。

喜欢一个人,有时候盼和他在一起。
爱一个人,有时候怕和他在一起。

喜欢一个人,不停的和他争执。
爱一个人,不停的为他付出。

喜欢一个人,希望他可以随时找到自己。
爱一个人,希望可以随时找到他。

喜欢一个人,总是为他而笑。
爱一个人,总是为他而哭。

喜欢,是执着。
爱,是值得。

喜欢就是喜欢,很简单。
爱就是爱,很复杂。

喜欢你,却不一定爱你。
爱你,就一定很喜欢你。

其实,喜欢和爱仅一步之遥。
但,想要迈这一步。
就看你,
是喜欢迈这一步;
还是爱迈这一步。

??? Why Men Lies ???

November 11th, 2005 by florencefung

|| One day, while a woodcutter was cutting a branch of a tree above a river, his axe fell into the river. When he cried out, the
Lord appeared and asked, "Why are you crying?" The woodcutter replied that his axe has fallen into water, and he needed the axe to make his living. The Lord went down in the water and reappeared with a golden axe. "Is this your axe?"
the Lord asked. The woodcutter replied, "No."

The Lord again went down and came up with a silver axe. "Is this your axe?" the Lord asked. Again, the woodcutter replied, "No."

The Lord went down again and came up with an iron axe. "Is this your axe?" the Lord asked."Yes", he replied. The Lord was pleased with the man’s honesty and gave him all three axes to keep, and the woodcutter went home happy. ||

|| Some time later the woodcutter was walking with his wife along the riverbank, and his wife fell into the river. When he
cried out, the Lord again appeared and asked him, "Why are you crying?" Oh Lord, my wife has fallen into the water!" The Lord went down into the water and came up with Angelina Jolie. "Is this your wife?" the Lord asked.

"Yes," cried the woodcutter.

The Lord was furious. "You lied! That is an untruth!"

The woodcutter fell to his knees and cried, "Oh, forgive me, Lord. It is a misunderstanding. You see, if I had said ‘no’ to Angelina Jolie, You would have come up with Catherine Zeta-Jones. Then if I also said ‘no’ to her, you would have come up with my wife. Had I then said ‘yes,’ you would have given me all three. Lord, I am a poor man, and am not able to take care of
all three wives, and I love my wife such that I don’t want her to share me with anyone, so THAT’S why I said yes to Angelina Jolie." ||

= The moral of this story is: Whenever a man lies, it is for a good and honourable reason, and for the benefit of others..
MOSTLY his wife! =

**** So Guys!!! Do you agree??? Gals…how do you feel? ***

= | LoVe YoU =

September 14th, 2005 by florencefung

- WHEN U R ONLY 5 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U  ASKED ME: WHAT IS IT?

- WHEN U R 15 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U BLUSHED… U LOOK DOWN AND SMILE…

- WHEN U R 20 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U PUT UR HEAD ON MY SHOULDER AND HOLD MY HAND… AFRAID THAT I MIGHT DISSAPEAR…

- WHEN U R 25 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U PREPARE BREAKFAST AND SERVE IT IN FRONT OF ME, AND KISS MY FOREHEAD SAID: U BETTER BE QUICK, IT’S GONNA BE LATE~

- WHEN U R 30 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U SAID: IF U REALLY LOVE ME, PLEASE COME BACK EARLY AFTER WORK.

- WHEN U R 40 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U R CLEANING THE DINING TABLE AND SAID: OK DEAR, BUT IT’S TIME FOR U TO HELP OUR CHILD WITH HIS/HER REVISION…

- WHEN U R 50 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U R KNITTING AND U LAUGH AT ME :-D

- WHEN U R 60 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U SMILE AT ME :-)

- WHEN U R 70 YRS OLD. I SAID I LOVE U. WE SIT ON THE ROCKING CHAIR
WITH OUR GLASSES ON. I’M READING YOUR LOVE LETTER THAT U SENT TO  ME 50 YRS AGO…WITH OUR HAND CROSSING TOGETHER…

- WHEN U R 80 YRS OLD, U SAID U LOVE ME! I DIDN’T SAY ANYTHING BUT
CRIED…THAT DAY MUST BE THE HAPPIEST DAY OF MY LIFE! BECAUSE U SAID U LOVE ME!!!

      PLEASE APPRECIATE YOUR LOVED ONES..

***My 23rD B|R+hDaY***

September 14th, 2005 by florencefung

                                       

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Wow!!! 09.09.2005 was such a wonderful & memorable night for me. I will always remember this night in my mind always. Actually, My birthday is on 12.09.xx, I just would like to celebrate it earlier on 09.09.2005 (Friday night fever) as 10.09.2005 was a Public Holiday in Sarawak for TYT Birthday of Sarawak region.

I was extremely enjoyed myself on that night. It was so fun, able to see most of my friends who get invited…thanks them so much for coming to my birthday & their special & wonderful gifts. I’m appreciate all of them so much…THANKS for the best greetings to me!!! Basically, I love all of my friends who r appreciated me like I do to them so much. Felt glad & nice to see them during that night!!!! THANKS THANKS THANKS THANKS!!!

Actually, the most I wanna thanks is MY DEAR…he was the one who helped me out almost in everything. Helped me to prepare food, drinks, desserts, entertainment, cake, served my colleagues & friends…etc…almost everything. Never knew that he can manage a function so well, but only that night. He let me to enjoyed with my friends and colleagues & never asked me to do anything on that night. So, that’s why I never worried about anything small matter on that night, the only thing I have to do is ENJOY MY BIRTHDAY!!! Wow!!!@@@@ Great!!!! U made me love you much more than before!!!! Hope you will treat me like this not only for that night but also for forever. I’m appreciate it so much. That’s the only reason that I wanna be with you & be so loyal to you for 4 1/2 years.  A big smuaks & hug to you!!!

                                My Dear      

The 2nd person I wanna thanks is MY BOSS…he has given me a very big surprised & gift. Wow ~! Never expected that he’ll attend to my birthday party. But, HE DID!!! And, he also helped me prepared food & red wines…The most important thing is that, THE DELICIOUS & YUMMY BIG YAM ICE-CREAM CAKE WAS HIS SPECIAL GIFT to me. I just realised & knew it from my BF…the cake actually was Mr. Yong asked him to prepare for me one. Wow!!!! What’s a good boss…never expected that he has given me this kind of surprise…Thanks!!!!!!!!!! I’ll work more harder for you….hehehehehehehehe…. And, thanks once again for your another gift besides the cake, food & red wine too.

                                       

Well, to conclude, I got a wonderful, enjoyable, fun birthday on 09.09.2005. Thanks!!!

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…A mom with an only eye…

September 6th, 2005 by florencefung

         ===== A very pity & touched story =====

My mom only had one eye. I hated her. She was such an embarrassment. My mom ran a small shop at a flea market. She collected little weeds and such to sell anything for the money we needed. She was such an embarrassment.

There was this one day during elementary school. It was field day, and my mom came. I was so embarrassed. "How could she do this to me?" I threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school, "Your mom only has one eye?!" and they taunted me. I wished that my mom would just disappear from this world so I said to my mom, "Mom! Why don’t you have the other eye?! If you’re only going to make me a laughingstock, why don’t you just die?!" my mom did not respond. I guess I felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that I had said what I’d wanted to say all this time. Maybe it was because my mom hadn’t punished me, but I didn’t think that I had hurt her feelings very badly. That night, I woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. My mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me. I took a look at her, then turned away. Because of the thing I had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart. Even so, I hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye. So I told myself that I would grow up and become successful because I hated my one-eyed mom and our desperate poverty.

Then I studied real hard. I left my mother and came to Seoul and studied, and got accepted in the Seoul University with all the confidence I had. Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. Then I had kids, too. Now I’m living happily as a successful man. I like it here because it’s a place that doesn’t remind me of my mom. This happiness was getting bigger and bigger.

When?! What?! Who’s this?! It was my mother…still with her one eye…it felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me. My little girl ran away, scared of my mom’s eye and I asked her, "Who are you?! I don’t know you!!!" as if trying to make that real. I screamed at her, " How dare you come to my house and scare my daughter! GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!" and to this, my mother quietly answered, "Oh, I’m so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address," and she disappeared out of sight. Thank goodness… she doesn’t recognize me. I was quite relieved. I told myself that I wasn’t going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life.

Then a wave of relief came upon me. One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. So, lying to my wife that I was going on a business trip, I went. After the reunion, I went down to the old shack, that I used to call a house…just out of curiosity there, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground. But I did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her hand…. it was a letter to me.

"My son, I think my life has been long enough now.. and… I won’t visit Seoul anymore… but would it be too much to ask if I wanted you to come visit me once in a while? I miss you so much…and I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I decided not to go to the school. For you, I’m sorry that I only have one eye, and I was an embarrassment for you. You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mom, I couldn’t stand watching you having to grow up with only one eye, so I gave you mine. I was so proud of my son that was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. I was never upset at you for anything you did. The couple times that you were angry with me, I thought to myself, ‘It’s because he loves me.’ My son…Oh, my son…"

…When a GIRL…

September 4th, 2005 by florencefung

When a GIRL is quiet, millions of things are running through her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing, she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers "i’m fine" after a few seconds, she is not at all fine.

When a GIRL stares at you, she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest, she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday, she wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says I love you, she means it.

When a GIRL says "i miss you," no one in this world can miss you more than that.

…Do you agree?…

= |n|+|@L D ~ J@y ChOu =

June 29th, 2005 by florencefung

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Finally, I went to JAY CHOU’s 1st movie. Hey!!! Jay Jay Jay…he’s my most favourite idol. Before his 1st movie released, I was so excited & impatience to watch it. Everyday I murmouring in front of my bf for bringing me go for this movie & everytime go out sure I’ll go to cinema for getting the latest information about this movie, until he can’t stand with me & told me that "My dear! The movie not yet released laa…Can’t you wait for some other time? After the movie released, I promise that I’ll bring you to watch it as I like Jay Chou too". Recalled back of that time, I really feel that I’m over crazy about Jay. Gosh!!! What to do? He’s very special for me. He’s the most potential & talented musician.

After I went to watch this movie, I word to describe "Wow!! Definitely is the best movie!!" Never ever felt disappointed with this movie. You will know how I feel after you watch this movie yourself. Totally interesting, exciting & also damn funny man. I laughed from the beginning until the end & also feel excited with those car racings. Totally no negative comment for that.

Now, I still dreaming for that movie. Haha!! Crazy right? Planning to buy DVD & the soundtrack all together this Saturday or Sunday. Wanna keep it as my collection.

Anyway, hope Jay will get some award for his 1st movie in no longer time. I’m sure he’ll. Awaiting for his good news.

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