Archive for September, 2005

= | LoVe YoU =

Wednesday, September 14th, 2005

- WHEN U R ONLY 5 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U  ASKED ME: WHAT IS IT?

- WHEN U R 15 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U BLUSHED… U LOOK DOWN AND SMILE…

- WHEN U R 20 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U PUT UR HEAD ON MY SHOULDER AND HOLD MY HAND… AFRAID THAT I MIGHT DISSAPEAR…

- WHEN U R 25 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U PREPARE BREAKFAST AND SERVE IT IN FRONT OF ME, AND KISS MY FOREHEAD SAID: U BETTER BE QUICK, IT’S GONNA BE LATE~

- WHEN U R 30 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U SAID: IF U REALLY LOVE ME, PLEASE COME BACK EARLY AFTER WORK.

- WHEN U R 40 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U R CLEANING THE DINING TABLE AND SAID: OK DEAR, BUT IT’S TIME FOR U TO HELP OUR CHILD WITH HIS/HER REVISION…

- WHEN U R 50 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U R KNITTING AND U LAUGH AT ME :-D

- WHEN U R 60 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U. U SMILE AT ME :-)

- WHEN U R 70 YRS OLD. I SAID I LOVE U. WE SIT ON THE ROCKING CHAIR
WITH OUR GLASSES ON. I’M READING YOUR LOVE LETTER THAT U SENT TO  ME 50 YRS AGO…WITH OUR HAND CROSSING TOGETHER…

- WHEN U R 80 YRS OLD, U SAID U LOVE ME! I DIDN’T SAY ANYTHING BUT
CRIED…THAT DAY MUST BE THE HAPPIEST DAY OF MY LIFE! BECAUSE U SAID U LOVE ME!!!

      PLEASE APPRECIATE YOUR LOVED ONES..

***My 23rD B|R+hDaY***

Wednesday, September 14th, 2005

                                       

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Wow!!! 09.09.2005 was such a wonderful & memorable night for me. I will always remember this night in my mind always. Actually, My birthday is on 12.09.xx, I just would like to celebrate it earlier on 09.09.2005 (Friday night fever) as 10.09.2005 was a Public Holiday in Sarawak for TYT Birthday of Sarawak region.

I was extremely enjoyed myself on that night. It was so fun, able to see most of my friends who get invited…thanks them so much for coming to my birthday & their special & wonderful gifts. I’m appreciate all of them so much…THANKS for the best greetings to me!!! Basically, I love all of my friends who r appreciated me like I do to them so much. Felt glad & nice to see them during that night!!!! THANKS THANKS THANKS THANKS!!!

Actually, the most I wanna thanks is MY DEAR…he was the one who helped me out almost in everything. Helped me to prepare food, drinks, desserts, entertainment, cake, served my colleagues & friends…etc…almost everything. Never knew that he can manage a function so well, but only that night. He let me to enjoyed with my friends and colleagues & never asked me to do anything on that night. So, that’s why I never worried about anything small matter on that night, the only thing I have to do is ENJOY MY BIRTHDAY!!! Wow!!!@@@@ Great!!!! U made me love you much more than before!!!! Hope you will treat me like this not only for that night but also for forever. I’m appreciate it so much. That’s the only reason that I wanna be with you & be so loyal to you for 4 1/2 years.  A big smuaks & hug to you!!!

                                My Dear      

The 2nd person I wanna thanks is MY BOSS…he has given me a very big surprised & gift. Wow ~! Never expected that he’ll attend to my birthday party. But, HE DID!!! And, he also helped me prepared food & red wines…The most important thing is that, THE DELICIOUS & YUMMY BIG YAM ICE-CREAM CAKE WAS HIS SPECIAL GIFT to me. I just realised & knew it from my BF…the cake actually was Mr. Yong asked him to prepare for me one. Wow!!!! What’s a good boss…never expected that he has given me this kind of surprise…Thanks!!!!!!!!!! I’ll work more harder for you….hehehehehehehehe…. And, thanks once again for your another gift besides the cake, food & red wine too.

                                       

Well, to conclude, I got a wonderful, enjoyable, fun birthday on 09.09.2005. Thanks!!!

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…A mom with an only eye…

Tuesday, September 6th, 2005

         ===== A very pity & touched story =====

My mom only had one eye. I hated her. She was such an embarrassment. My mom ran a small shop at a flea market. She collected little weeds and such to sell anything for the money we needed. She was such an embarrassment.

There was this one day during elementary school. It was field day, and my mom came. I was so embarrassed. "How could she do this to me?" I threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school, "Your mom only has one eye?!" and they taunted me. I wished that my mom would just disappear from this world so I said to my mom, "Mom! Why don’t you have the other eye?! If you’re only going to make me a laughingstock, why don’t you just die?!" my mom did not respond. I guess I felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that I had said what I’d wanted to say all this time. Maybe it was because my mom hadn’t punished me, but I didn’t think that I had hurt her feelings very badly. That night, I woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. My mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me. I took a look at her, then turned away. Because of the thing I had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart. Even so, I hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye. So I told myself that I would grow up and become successful because I hated my one-eyed mom and our desperate poverty.

Then I studied real hard. I left my mother and came to Seoul and studied, and got accepted in the Seoul University with all the confidence I had. Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. Then I had kids, too. Now I’m living happily as a successful man. I like it here because it’s a place that doesn’t remind me of my mom. This happiness was getting bigger and bigger.

When?! What?! Who’s this?! It was my mother…still with her one eye…it felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me. My little girl ran away, scared of my mom’s eye and I asked her, "Who are you?! I don’t know you!!!" as if trying to make that real. I screamed at her, " How dare you come to my house and scare my daughter! GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!" and to this, my mother quietly answered, "Oh, I’m so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address," and she disappeared out of sight. Thank goodness… she doesn’t recognize me. I was quite relieved. I told myself that I wasn’t going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life.

Then a wave of relief came upon me. One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. So, lying to my wife that I was going on a business trip, I went. After the reunion, I went down to the old shack, that I used to call a house…just out of curiosity there, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground. But I did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her hand…. it was a letter to me.

"My son, I think my life has been long enough now.. and… I won’t visit Seoul anymore… but would it be too much to ask if I wanted you to come visit me once in a while? I miss you so much…and I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I decided not to go to the school. For you, I’m sorry that I only have one eye, and I was an embarrassment for you. You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mom, I couldn’t stand watching you having to grow up with only one eye, so I gave you mine. I was so proud of my son that was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. I was never upset at you for anything you did. The couple times that you were angry with me, I thought to myself, ‘It’s because he loves me.’ My son…Oh, my son…"

…When a GIRL…

Sunday, September 4th, 2005

When a GIRL is quiet, millions of things are running through her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing, she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers "i’m fine" after a few seconds, she is not at all fine.

When a GIRL stares at you, she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest, she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday, she wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says I love you, she means it.

When a GIRL says "i miss you," no one in this world can miss you more than that.

…Do you agree?…